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Melissa Marrus
Graduation Speech

Good afternoon. On this day marking the beginning of many new adventures and accomplishments, excitement and joy, I ask that you take a moment to reflect on what has made this moment in time possible. Think way, way back, seemingly millions of years ago, to the day we arrived in the whirlwind of chaos, just as Dorothy first stepped foot in Oz. Like Dorothy, we, too, were on our way to beginning an exciting adventure, promising a great education, requiring a lot of courage and heart and rewarding us with a home (which is why we chose this as the theme for our senior banquet). As we began the journey, though, that first day of freshman year, instead of the yellow brick road, we had Broadway with chalked out squares. There, we sat with pillows, illegal microwaves and halogen lamps, entire wardrobes, waiting to move into our rooms and get on with our journey. Remember Barnard back then.

Take a look around you at our home now; how much better off is Barnard since we've been here? Among the many improvements that we have helped to institute are the recycling program, one of the best sexual misconduct policies in the nation, a move toward socially responsible investing, the elimination of the 18 credit limit, and so much more. None of this could have happened without us-we saw a problem and went out to fix it, with the support of the administration and faculty. While Dorothy was out looking for home, we were looking to make our home a better place for everyone.

Home, however, is much more than a place, a physical location. Home constitutes the family, friends, and lasting personal relationships that better every one of us. While our class has certainly left it's mark in the legacy of Barnard, each of us has made an indelible mark upon the people here at Barnard. As we sit here, celebrating our accomplishments as individuals, we cannot neglect the fact that we could not have done this alone. Through the support and inspiration of our peers, faculty and administrators, we have become better, stronger women, ready to face the challenges that life outside of Barnard has to offer. Think of your friends, your relatives, the people that you love-the family, in the truest sense of the word, that has been your greatest supporter.

We arrived here what may seem like ages ago or just yesterday, and now we are moving forward, taking on new challenges and endeavors. We're not, however, leaving this behind-at the very least, our footprints remain. Just as we rely on the guidance and love of our family and friends, we have provided the same for others. Without sharing in this care for each other and for our community, we could not have evolved into the successful and fulfilled women that sit here now. We have helped friends become better people and accomplish extraordinary feats, just as they have done the same for us. We cannot leave that behind.

To put this all in perspective: if we can accomplish all of these things in one place, in four years, can you imagine how much we can do with the rest of our lives, in the rest of the world? We are, truly, headed for great things. With all of this behind us, with the support of Barnard, with the love of our family and friends, with the knowledge of our own power as individuals, we are ready to head out on our own amazing adventures, be it through Emerald City, New York City, or any other place in the world. Though there's no place like Barnard, there's certainly no class like 2000.

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