How can I make S&M safe?


In order to make Sadomasochistic (SM) play safe it is vital for all partners involved to be aware of safer sex guidelines and to be consenting to the specific activity. In situations where "no, please don't" or the like can be a part of the fun, it is very important to have a "safeword" which, when used, will stop all play immediately.

In terms of disease prevention, some important tips include:

 

  • If a toy comes in contact with blood, vaginal fluids, or semen, it must be washed (10% bleach, 90% water, followed by soapy water.
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  • Hepatitis B is hard to kill especially on leather or suede items. Make a visit to Health Services if you have not yet been immunized against Hep B.
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  • For play piercing or cutting, be sure to clean the area first, use sterile syringes, and soak all non-disposable instruments in 50% bleach, 50% water.
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  • Activities such as bondage, spanking, psychological domination, submission, ect. are STI-safe. For more information, see http://www.stopaids.org/smsex.html and check out Columbia's own BDSM discussion group, Conversio Virium.

Remember that will all S&M activity both partners must consent to each specific activity.

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